If I had one minute of national air time in China and could provide a single piece of information to correct a deep cultural misunderstanding, hereâ€™s what I would say, â€œYou like to try, but itâ€™s really hard, maybe impossible, to guess a white personâ€™s nationality.â€
Just about every Chinese I meet asks me where Iâ€™m from. My usual response is â€œWhere do you think?â€. What then follows, almost invariably, is â€œYou look like you are fromâ€¦â€ following by the name of various countries inhabited by large numbers of white people. Canada, France, Australia, Spain, Russia, Switzerland, Italy. Iâ€™ve heard them all.
Thereâ€™s usually a note of certainty andÂ keen deductive reasoning about it, for example, â€œpeople as tall as you are come from France, so you must be Frenchâ€, or â€œpeople in America have big noses, and you do, so you are American, right?â€, or â€œyou are so friendly, you are Englishâ€, or â€œCanadians have blue eyes, so you should be Canadianâ€.
There is universal disbelief when I explain that white people pretty much all look the same, and that in most cases, I canâ€™t tell by looking at Caucasians where they are from. The small clues I might use â€“ differences in clothing, accent, hairstyles â€“ are not perceived or understood by Chinese. They just look at the skin color and then form a conclusion.
About one-third of the time, someone guesses right. When I ask them why they think Iâ€™m American, I hear all kinds of things, some flattering, some not. Equally, when I correct a wrong guess, Iâ€™m then often lectured, in a friendly way, why I couldnâ€™t possibly be American, because American men are all lighter-skinned than me, or have mustaches, or are balding. And so on.
I always enjoy these little exchanges. As far as I can tell, my Chinese interlocutors do as well. If I have the time, Iâ€™ll explain that white Americans are really deracinated Europeans, whose ancestors came from England, Germany, Ireland, Italy, Eastern Europe. We still look pretty much the same as people still living in those places.
This usually is news to Chinese. I suggest to them that just as lots, though not all,Â Japanese and Koreans can pass for Chinese, and that large numbers of Thai, Indonesian and Filipino citizens have Chinese ancestry, so many white people look like they could come from any number of different countries.
From what I can tell,Â many Chinese think there is a distinct American â€œraceâ€, with unique appearance and physique. Sometimes I fit that â€œgenotypeâ€ for them. Sometimes not.Â Chinese are used to hearing over and over how their own country is made up of 55 different ethnic minorities, many of whom look rather similar to the Han people who make up 91%.5Â of the country’s 1.3 billion peope. Â Quite a few, therefore, surmise countries in Europe and North America are populated by unique “races” , all somewhat similar, but each with its own unique ethnic identity. Sometimes costumes as well.
The irony is that when pressed, most Chinese will admit that to them, all white people look pretty much the same. They are happy to guess a white personâ€™s nationality, despite the fact that to them whites all look more or lessÂ alike. From what I can tell, Chinese donâ€™t â€œseeâ€ a white face the way white people do. They donâ€™t apprehend the big differences among whites in hair, eye and skin color.
If some of these more subtle differences don’t make of an impression, overall Chinese have gotten far more familiar seeing white faces, mainly on TV, but also in major cities like Shanghai and Beijing. Compare this to the situationÂ 200 years ago when Europeans first began making their presence known, often forcefully, to the Chinese. Then, Chinese described foreigners mainly as peope in garish costumes, with long red beards, and an overall appearance not unlike either monkeys or theÂ devil. (The porcelain plate displayed above is from that time, the Qing Dynasty, showing a Chinese official receiving a European envoy.)
Truth to tell, I don’t much like being mistaken for a Russian, the most common guess. But,Â I’m always greeted warmly and with genuine curiosity and goodwill. That’s something those earlierÂ visitors of European ancestryÂ rarely, if ever, experienced.
3 thoughts on “Funny, You Don’t Look American”
first, as you said there are 1.3 (well now way over 1.4) billion people in China. i wonder how many o f them you have asked. in other words, how representative are the responses? it seems to me you over generalized a bit when you say: the Chinese…..
Second, to the Chinese white people do look alike. not all have traveled the world and not all see foreigners everyday or in large numbers. so it seems to me their wrong guesses are really to be expected. but that is not really a character fault or intelligence defect of the people, right?
Third, since you presumably have lived in China for many years, can you tell which province a chinese person (that you meet on the street of Beijing or Shanghai) is from? a lot of chinese can but i bet most foreigners can’t.
anyway, you got an interesting point but over generalization will only mislead those uninitiated to the issues at hand.
I was told once “You can’t be American, Americans have blue eyes and blond hair.”
I was stunned speechless.
If a foreigner has been in China long enough, has interacted with Chinese and can speak the language, it becomes relatively easy to discern from the person’s speech and accent whether the person is from the north or the south. Many Chinese have distinctive body types, which to the perceptive gives a notion of the person’s birthplace.
As you wrote, it’s easy to generalize, however, there are distinctive characteristics to every race.
Incidentally, even though I’m from Canada and because I am tanned, I have been mistaken for a Uighur or a Pakistani. No offense taken.
Have been in China for fifteen years and greatly anticipate another 15.